This microadventure really started with a macroadventure that involved me singing on stage under the tutelage of Faye Nepon. Through that performance, I was introduced to Faye’s sister, Cyd Charrow, who is part of the Pelican Cabaret Singers.
When I heard that the Pelican Cabaret Singers were going to be performing not too far from Sarasota, I absolutely wanted to attend!
The performance invitation read:The Pelican Cabaret Singers will perform after a delicious lunch by Banquet Masters in Community Hall on Saturday February 12. The doors will be open at 11:30 a.m. to view raffle baskets and socialize; lunch at noon; followed by a performance by the Pelican Players Cabaret Singers.
I was told that the performance would be in “Sun City Center” which sounds like a building, but as it turns out, it’s actually the city name of a 55+ community. Though this created a bit of confusion for both me and my GPS, I eventually figured out that this little city was very close to Ruskin, the place that Kellie, from Microadventure #5 lives. Kellie had said she’d be happy to meet up for microadventures, and she likes theater (we both love “Beauty and the Beast” and Disney music) and happily accepted my invitation to join me!
I’d been eating very healthfully since the beginning of the year.. including no desserts, sugar, or chocolate. However, I could not resist completely indulging at this delicious luncheon.
There was a buffet-style with salads, veggies, chicken, and lasagna.
Check out the dessert table! Though I started with the carrot cake, I admit, I went back for samplings of the cheese cake and chocolate cake. It was Valentine’s week after all..
The program included some fun show tunes that I hadn’t heard in years. The audience couldn’t help but snap their fingers or sway to the beat on some of these old favorites. “King of the Road” brought back happy memories – Glenn Campbell on the record player when I was a kid.
Cyd’s performance was “Gimme Gimme” from the musical “Thoroughly Modern Millie.” I haven’t seen that play yet, but after watching this performance, I’m putting it on my list! Cyd did an awesome job!
It was such fun to see this performance and share it with Kellie. Musical theater, delicious food, and new friends! What a treat!
I met Samar at Mutual of Omaha where we were both working as Agile coaches through her sister, Sally’s company, Agile Transformations. A week or so ago, Samar texted me and told me that she, Sally, and the whole gang from Agile Transformations was going to be at a conference at the Art Ovation Hotel in Sarasota!
I picked Samar up at the Sarasota-Bradenton airport at around noon and we had the whole afternoon together! The weather was beautiful and sunny – the first in several days – so we had a nice long walk, ending at Marina Jacks, enjoying a delicious lunch on the patio. We even saw several dolphins as they surfaced
The streets of Sarasota are adorned with these pretty painted bicycles
Lunch at Marina Jacks
Samar is a wonderful and wise friend. We reminisced about the days when we were working at MoO with our friend and fellow-coach, Ryan, and talked about how all 3 of us have succeeded in having the dreams we were hoping for come to pass.. both personally and professionally.
Ryan, me, and Samar in 2018 in Omaha
When we got back to the Art Ovation, we were able to take a tour and hear about the art that was on display as well as hear about the artists.
The hotel was unique with lots of artsy touches throughout. Even the rooms had sketchbooks, colored pencils, and other interesting items… all for sale (at very high prices!)
I especially liked the rooftop that had a bar, infinity pool, and cozy outdoor furniture.
Sally (Samar’s sister) didn’t get into Sarasota until about 5:30pm. I’m glad I got a chance to see her, too.. She’s one of the most respected Agile leaders there is and I feel so lucky and proud to know her personally.
Sally, Samar, and me!
So ends another unplanned microadventure. A couple of weeks ago, I had no idea that Samar would be in town. How fortuitous that the conference was here in Sarasota and that we were able to spend such a gorgeous day reconnecting!
This week’s microadventure has been every bit as much about the “who” as the “what” and “where.” Yes, bird-watching at Oscar Scherer State Park was a new, unique experience for me. I’d never really been exposed to the world of bird-watching, and Eva is quite a serious birder! It was interesting for me to learn about the “Big Year Challenge” in which birders find and log as many different species of birds in a particular area during a year. That kind of thing is SO up my alley.
On this hike, we were in hot pursuit of the Florida scrub-jay, which, unfortunately, we were not able to find.
Though we didn’t find the illusive jay, Eva still captured some worthy bird photographs. She recently started a new business, evasbirdsiview.com with her wonderful bird photography captured on shirts and greeting cards. She even gifted me with the pretty pick-me-up Pelican greeting card.
As I said, though, this microadventure, was extra special because of the women who I shared it with. Becky had invited a group of girlfriends, Eva, Felicia, and Georgette, to spend the weekend with her. These ladies have known each other and been close for over 50 years, though they’ve been geographically scattered. Eva and Felicia are cousins and they are all as close (or closer) than sisters and their love and support for one another is apparent.
They all share a love of singing and I enjoyed an evening of untethered joy on the first night of their reunion as Eva and Becky got out their guitars and sang together.
On that first night, Becky’s sister, Susie, joined the reunion, singing harmony.
But the highlight of the weekend was hearing and recording a song that Georgette and written long ago, “Any Way She Can” and she and Eva had put to music. The lyrics of this unique love song are a powerful testament to the long-time love and friendship that all these women share. Eva’s daughter is in the music business, so I hope she’s able to get this in front of the right people. Both the music and lyrics are enough to make me tear up whenever I hear it.
So, again, this week’s microadventure was much more than a hike in a park.. it was about being accepted and welcomed into a special sisterhood weekend, giving me a peek into the lives of these unique, talented women who have gone “any place, anywhere, any way they can!”
Say what you will about Facebook, but I find it an awesome tool for staying in touch with friends from around the world. Just like in Microadventure #4, I, once again, discovered an old friend was in Florida. This time, the friend was Christine, someone I’d met in 2017, the year I was working at Mutual of Omaha. Christine was vacationing on her own in Tampa. I gave her a call and found out she only had one day left of her vacation and she’d made a new friend, Kellie, at the airport, who she had plans to meet up with.
Two friendly, single, independent women make perfect Microadventure Buddies! I asked if I could tag along, and received a welcoming thumbs up!
We all met at Kellie’s beautiful new home in Ruskin, FL, which turned out to be exactly the half-way point between Sarasota (where I’m staying) and Tampa (where Christine was staying).
The Gulf Coast is going through a bit of a cold, rainy, cloudy spell right now, so the weather wasn’t exactly the tropical paradise that one would hope for, but still nice, compared to the weather most of the rest of the nation was experiencing.
I just love those big trees with their draping Spanish Moss creating romantic canopies. Bailey, Kellie’s dog enjoyed the expansive trail, too, and was always ahead, scouting the way for us.
Our next stop was the Manatee Viewing Center, offering up more pretty walkways, gift shop, an opportunity to pet stingray, and, of course, the main attraction – a manatee viewing area. The manatee are supposed to be more observable during rainy, cold days, but, unfortunately, we didn’t see any. However, I discovered, you can use Webcams to see them via your computer from anywhere, too! This worked a lot better than the live viewing! They were all over the place!
You can zoom in and adjust your camera, so it’s very cool!
However, of course, being there in person was very fun and I loved seeing all the stingray swim by in the stingray petting area.
Our final stop was the Sunset Grill and Beach Bar, a cute lunch spot on the beach. You can’t go to Apollo Beach without going to the beach, right? Even though it was a bummer that it was a rainy day, it was fun to listen to the live music and enjoy some warming seafood bisque soup.
This week’s Microadventure was a spontaneous trip to see an Art Show in Sanibel with Becky.
On Friday morning, I saw a post on Facebook from an old colleague from the Sun days, Geoff Coe. I knew Geoff was somewhere in Florida and I’d seen many of his posts with his stunning photography. In his post, Geoff said he would be at this art show on Friday and Saturday from 9-4pm.
The weather was a lot cloudier and colder than usual, and the forecast for Saturday was even worse, with rain predicted. If we were going to go, the sooner the better!
Lucky for me, Becky is an up-for-anything kind of gal-pal, and she generously offered to make the 2+ hour drive with me to go see the show.
It was wonderful to see Geoff again after so many years and hear about his business, Geoff Coe’s Wild Images. The photographs were amazing and stunning to see in person.
Geoff’s booth was very busy. I found out he’ll be in Sarasota, too, a couple of times this summer, so I’ll get to see him again!
Unfortunately, the weather was too cold to get out to the beach, but I still had fun having the afternoon with Becky. Even though I’ve been living with her all month, Becky and I have each been so busy, we’ve hardly had any time to do something together! It’s always good to get some one-on-one time with the wise and wonderful Becky Burns.
After enjoying our fill of the art show, we meandered next door to a very fun and funky restaurant, Island Cow, for an early dinner before heading home.
Every day is a sweet adventure here in sunny Florida so it’s hard to choose just one to blog about. However, since one of my “requirements” for a microadventure is that another person is with me, and John invited me to play miniature golf tonight, it’s my pick for Microadventure #3!
We met up at The Fish Hole in Lakewood Ranch, a winsome little town about 20 minutes North of Sarasota. The evening air was clear and beautiful, in the mid 60’s (while back home in Colorado it’s a frigid 27 degrees.)
The decor was full of whimsical fishing gear and signs and even a little bell to ring to show you were having fun. We were the only patrons in the whole place so we had the sole attention of Aaron, the helpful kid at the front desk! It was as though we were royalty or celebrities having a private party in this colorful, bright attraction! No lines, no kids, no waiting, no worries!
Each hole featured a different type of fish with facts and information about the fish. You know how I love themes and the whole place was very fishy!
But, of course, the game here is putt-putt golf, not fishing. John brought his custom-made putter and he said that putter has been in many-a-mini-golf-course.
He shared the putter with me and it must have brought me good luck because it was the best game of mini-golf I’ve ever played! I even got a hole-in-one on two different holes!
John was ahead of me for most of the game, but we ended up with exactly the same score! 26 each – only 4 over par!
After we finished, we strolled on Main Street which was lined with plenty of shops and dinner restaurants to choose from. Everything looked clean and new and very Disney-esque. Straight from a fairy tale!
We ended up choosing a Mexican restaurant, eating out on a patio and enjoying the musicians and all the delightful smells, sights and sounds of the beautiful evening.
I am having so much fun here in sunny Florida! Every day is a “microadventure” but the one I’m going to blog about is my Saturday excursion to Venice, Florida!
Venice is a quaint little beach town about 30 minutes south of Becky’s townhouse in Sarasota. As I mentioned, the challenge I’ve set for myself with these microadventures is every week to see a new place with another person and blog about it.
For this adventure, my “other person” was a very handsome and sweet Bumble date, John, who was an excellent tour guide as he’s lived in Venice for many years.
We met up at Centennial Park on Venice Avenue. John showed me this super-cool Kaleidoscope Spinning Flower Pot! Check it out!
There was 60’s music playing at the gazebo and an older couple was dancing out in the park. It was like a scene right out of Norman Rockwell. John said that music is often playing in the park and I made a mental note that I wanted to come back to hear more.
We were both hungry, though, so we left the park to eat at T.J. Carneys, a yummy pub with a fun vibe. The elegant woman who showed us to our seats looked to be in her 80’s, still with plenty of pep in her step! John ordered up a French Dip, and I, still motivated by my January healthy eating goals, had a delicious “Summertime Salad.” Ah! How awesome to have “summertime” in winter!
After lunch, we strolled the quaint shops along Venice Avenue, full of beachy treasures. I loved browsing and admiring the decor in beautiful shades of teal, pinks, and blues. There were all sorts of unique finds, like some cool aqua jelly-fish-shaped lampshades!
Unlike most guys I know, John didn’t mind shopping at all.. he was even the one who suggested it! He especially enjoyed this store that was full of shells and sharks teeth! He was very knowledgable about the different types of shark teeth and it sounds like he’s quite the collector! He told me that the best beach to find shark teeth was nearby Nokomis beach.
Venice Avenue not only had super-cute shops and restaurants, but the streets and outdoors were filled with whimsical painted mermaids and seahorses. I asked John to get one of me posing with the pretty purple mermaid to send to my sister (she likes mermaids like I like flamingos.)
And speaking of flamingos… you KNOW I had to get a picture of this guy, still dressed up for Christmas!
When we got to the end of the downtown row of shops, John told me that the beaches were just a little bit further! We both went in our own cars, caravan style, with our phones on and John still being a personal tour guide as we headed for Venice Beach and Fishing Pier.
The weather was perfect.. sunny and in the 70’s. Everywhere I turned, there was beauty — in the sky, the shore, the water, the pier.
This gull was proudly holding a shrimp he’d caught for photo-snapping tourists like me! At one point, he dropped his shrimp, and John retrieved it and he picked it right out of his hand as though he were a pet bird.
Our final stop was Nokomis Beach. John had some other errands to run, so this is where we said our goodbyes. It was close enough to sunset that I wanted to stay and enjoy the beach a little longer. I didn’t find any shark teeth, but the beach was just full of beautiful shells, perfectly in tact!
I never get tired of looking at this scene. It fills me with a sense of awe and peace.
When someone asks, “What is a perfect day for you?” I would have to answer it’s a day like this one!
Positive-Thinking Walkers at Oak Park in North Port, FL
This year, I’d decided my 2022 project was to have at least one “microadventure” a week and blog about it. What is a microadventure, you ask? Well, Alistair Humphreys, who coined the phrase, describes it this way:
A microadventure is an adventure that is short, simple, local, cheap – yet still fun, exciting, challenging, refreshing and rewarding.
Though Alistair’s microadventures seem to always involve overnighters.. often without even tents! .. mine are going to be walks, hikes, or excursions in different locations.
Admittedly, this doesn’t seem like much of a stretch goal since I’ve been in the habit of walking daily for years now. My criteria is, though, that I have to go to new places with someone else AND I have to write about it! That means, I can’t just do my standard 5-mile neighborhood walk every day and call it done.
Since I’m relatively nomadic for the winter, it also might be a challenge to be able to find someone to go with me.
As I wrote about once before, one of the first things I do to make new friends when I’m exploring a new place is to find a Meetup to join.
Marianne from the Sarasota Walkers group hosted the perfect Meetup event for my first microadventure of the year:
POSITIVE THINKERS HIKE + DISCUSSION 3:30pm NORTH PORT @OAKS PARK
Positive thinkers need support in these times. Please join me for a discussion + hike/walk every Sunday at Oaks Park in North Port. We’ll gather at the picnic tables for intros and a 30 min guided group discussion. Afterwards, we walk/hike the Myakkahatchee Creek trail in North Port’s lush urban Wilderness. 2 miles RT, rated EASY PACE/EFFORT but more demanding than walking on level pavement. Not for folks with limiting balance issues. Wear closed-toe shoes.
A hike in a new park AND a discussion about positive thinking? I hit gold! Walking and positivity are two of my obsessions! And even though when people talk about “in these times” they’re referring to Covid, I’m still reeling over the Superior fire, so this was a welcome reprieve.
Marianne led the discussion, starting with introductions and a name-game where each person has to repeat the names of everyone who went before them. (I love those kinds of ice-breakers and memory is another one of my interests.) She then gave us all a hand-out about optimism with tips and things we can do to be more optimistic. These were all related to brain health which I’m always talking about such as learning, trying new things, and developing healthy habits.
Of course, walking and being in nature are two of the best things you can do for your health, so after our short discussion, we were on our way!
The Florida trails are different from those I’m used to in Colorado.. they are typically flatter and the plants and wildlife is different. This trail was lush with palm trees and some small streams we crossed along the way.
Though it was a bit humid, I marveled that I could be taking this hike in January with shorts when back home in Colorado, a snowstorm was going on.
My favorite part, though, was meeting new people. Most of us were retired and several were snowbirds and semi-nomadic, like me. I finally remembered to hand out my little “Carpe Diem” business cards I’d made up, and I even got some new Facebook connections and texts!
Marianne called yesterday and asked if I might be interested in leading the discussion at an upcoming Sunday, and I said, Absolutely! I’m going to talk about Everyday Joy on January 16!
Dan Jaworski is fighting Alzheimer’s and participating in his dream of participating in the Kona Ironman.
“I thank God for the gift of TODAY – CARPE DIEM!” ~Dan Jaworski
When Dan Jaworski received a devastating diagnosis and a recommendation from his doctor to move forward on his bucket list, he knew what he needed to do.
“Within hours of my diagnosis, I contacted Sarah Hartmann at The IRONMAN Foundation. I am so grateful for this amazing opportunity to race Kona on October 9, 2021”
You can read more about Dan and his inspirational story here. His attitude of resilience and strength is the same “Carpe Diem spirit” that I saw in my friend Craig Dunham when he was faced with an ALS Diagnosis. It’s the reason I started CarpeDiemDay.com.
Rather than ask for money, Dan asked for 140 names – one for each of the 140.6 miles of the race – of others who are battling Alzheimer’s and related diseases.
Gratefully, I don’t currently know anyone personally suffering from Alzheimer’s, but I certainly understand the devastation and fear most people would have in the face of such a diagnosis.
Dan’s optimistic attitude, his drive, tenacity, and resilient spirit will most certainly work in his favor in the coming months, both in his training and in his overall health.
Let’s follow his lead! Whether it’s participating in an Ironman, writing a book, or repairing a relationship, don’t wait. Follow your dreams.
For a #carpediemday celebration, Lee MacIvor leaves her late husband’s huge book collection to a local nursing home.
I’ve been hosting Carpe Diem Day contests throughout the month of February mostly in a selfish attempt to gain followers and recognition for Carpe Diem Day.
I’d venture to say, no one cared about winning the $25 prizes I was suggesting for any of my contests. The few people who were playing, were playing for the fun of it. I loved seeing the creative photos and captions for both Wear Red Day and Umbrella Day. Picking a clear winner based on quality of entry was too difficult so I went with a “random draw” approach.
With my final contest.. the “big one”… in celebration of Carpe Diem Day.. there ended up being one very clear winner. Her “entry” into this contest is much more than a creative photo.
Her story captures the spirit of what I envisioned for Carpe Diem Day celebrations so perfectly.. showing resilience, love, generosity, and the preservation of legacy.
Lee’s story begins over 50 years ago when she met her first love – the love of her life – Brian MacIvor. They were high school sweethearts at Karachi American School in Pakistan.
A few years after high school they went on to live separate lives. They reconnected in 1995 after Lee acted upon a dream she had a few days before by telephoning. Despite living in different countries, Lee – in a very “Carpe Diem” -like way, seized the day. She made the bold move from the US to Europe and later in 1998, she and Brian were married. Who says those romantic movies are unrealistic?
When Brian died tragically in an accident in 2017, the grief for Lee, of course, was unbearable. Grief is an emotion that is indescribable. Though it might remind us that life is precious, ‘seizing the day,’ when we don’t have our partner to seize it with anymore, feels empty. Life can feel meaningless.
But life is NOT meaningless. Brian’s life gave so much meaning to Lee and to countless others. Brian’s art, his poetry, and his amazing, eclectic library of books — these all had meaning. Brian’s passions and joys affected other people. Brian brought love to this world. He made the world a better place. Most notably, he made Lee’s world a better place.
When a loved one dies, we’re entrusted to a legacy that’s more than their possessions. We hold this intimate knowledge of this beautiful soul that changed our lives. When we see their writing, perhaps a signature on an old card.. Or hear their voice, perhaps on an old video.. We want to imprint those memories in our minds and our hearts so they’re never forgotten. We want the world to know this amazing person. We want the world to know this unique, one-of-a-kind genius who we loved.. This person is gone from this world now, but we want the world to be able to experience their magic.
Lee, holds a gold mine of memories of Brian in her heart. Her Carpe Diem Day celebration is to donate Brian’s amazing collection of over 4000 books to the right home.
Donating a collection of this size, however, is not easy. Donating anything after a great loss is not easy. Lee’s quest for a home for Brian’s treasured collection came with challenges.
She put a social media post out looking for a home, describing the unusual collection and Brian’s parameters in his selections:
Brian, a quiet, handsome, and easy to love man from Toronto started collecting books at a young age. As he grew, so did his passion for books. He formed his own parameters as to what would be suitable for his personal collection. The basic genres for his collection were science fiction/fantasy and detective mysteries, although there are many classics in the collection as well. The books had to be used and in paperback (with a few exceptions allowing for availability and books received as gifts). Brian would never lend a book from his collection; instead he would generously buy and give a copy of the book to the one who had asked for the loan.
So now I am here to ask for what I need and for what I envision. I see someone with a big heart and big respect for a book lover’s beloved collection. I see a person/persons with a plan to receive/retrieve these books and to give/find them a home or many appreciative homes.
Thank you, dear Universe, for connecting me to what I need and want. It may be through FB, email, phone, or a knock on the door, but somehow your magic will prevail.
Lee received various leads and ideas and helpful communication from book store owners, university library directors, and SciFy/Fantasy book clubs. She had different ideas about donating to youth groups, local prisons, or nursing homes, but all came with complications. Her preference was to keep the collection together, but it was difficult to find a recipient who wanted the entire collection.
When she saw my Carpe Diem Day contest, and that it was on February 26th, 2021, the day after Brian’s February 25th birthday, she was determined to donate the cherished collection in celebration of Carpe Diem Day, despite any complications.
As often happens when we put our intentions out, the Universe provided Lee with an answer on February 23rd. She happily wrote to those of us involved with her story:
Just received a call from Genesis nursing & rehab – they will take Brian’s ENTIRE collection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so elatingly, heart-pumpingly high! Brian’s books will have a forever home and we may be able to visit!
Delivering books to Genesis / Salisbury Rehab & Nursing Center on February 25, 2021 are (LtoR)Jacobs Gilliam, Captain Cristina Trantham, Willie Downing from The Salvation Army; Heather, Angela Clady, and Ted of Genesis.
This week will continue to be emotional for Lee, as the whole month of February has been, with Anniversaries and special days that she and Brian celebrated together. I am thrilled that she found a home for Brian’s collection and that his legacy will continue to be shared with the world. Despite challenges and pain, choosing to spread joy, love, and happiness.. choosing to persevere.. Now that is what Carpe Diem Day is all about.
